Friday, 8 November 2013

A way to a Man's Heart!

There's a saying which I've heard way too often.. "The way to a man's heart, is through his stomach". Although I'll think the way is a little down south than the stomach :P .. But I wont disregard this old adage, I mean this might or might not be true, but I don't want to risk it!!

So what does that mean? Well that simply means, I've started taking cooking seriously, not that I can't cook if my life depended on it, I CAN! But that's not the way you win a man's heart, even if its someone with as low as a benchmark as my man does (I mean come on he's a bachelor who eats office cafeteria food.. even if I feed him uncooked vegetables I'll beat that mark :) !!) It's enough to stay afloat.. Yes.. but to win his heart.. Umm.. No.

And the more I get to cooking, the more I'm getting addicted to the praises and empty trays :) .. I've always been very fond of baked goods. It always surprises me how magic happens in the oven. But I wont say I'm a born cook. I had in the past tried my hand baking, but I was so bad that even the dogs decided to let it pass. And with that historic day in my vivid memory, and to my misfortune my Mum's memory any experimentation I did now was bound to scrutiny. Anyway, I decided I'll take baby steps, first step making my own breakfast :) .. Well there's no science to a bowl of cornflakes you'll say and I agree completely. But once bitten twice shy. I needed to gain confidence. Mixing milk and flakes right, ok i can do proportions now. Then graduating to making my own eggs, now I can cook on flame and not burn myself, great going. Milkshakes, I can operate the blender yay! and such small victories, made me a happy trooper!

There was a time when my mom was off for a week where I had to feed my dad and myself. It's then when I realised, I didn't lack the skill, I only lacked the patience :D .. my poor dad had to eat the same daal for the whole week :P But he's a sweetheart he doesn't complain ( I mean he did .. but while eating so I didn't take him seriously :P )  But Mom came back and I had no intentions of honing my skills further until "The Man" expressed his age old desire of having the wife cook delicacies for him, and how he'd never have that fulfilled as he chose me (angry face!).. That was a moment when the HWIMYM Barney style "CHALLENGE ACCEPTED!! buzz came to my mind.

First step was obvious.. his favourite breakfast recipe, Pancakes!! How difficult is that, just flour eggs and milk, and you're done :) .. I thought the effort was worth appreciation, he on the other hand thought the pancakes needed a little more cooking.. *heartbreak*.

Alright, we wont back down due to disapproval, only grow stronger and move on. Next up, appetizers, this time i decided Indian is safer, you see if you have the ingredients right, there's nothing much to it. So I thought Dahi ke kebab, and to my rescue came Tarala Dalal (who sadly passed away this Wednesday, may that amazing woman's soul rest in peace, for she helped a million Indian brides, find their way to their men's hearts!!) and did they work up a charm! It got even my dad stand up and take notice.. which is for me the best compliment ever. And because the kebabs were so good, he accepted defeat happily gulping down those melt in the mouth awesome things :D

Now emboldened by my new found success I decided to pick up the one task I most dreaded and haunted by.. Baking. I decided to bake brownies, and thus began the hunt for the perfect brownie recipe, after hours of internet surfing came across one which seemed achievable, got the ingredients, the humble food processor every lazy cook's dream tool came to help, took the abandoned oven and viola! slightly burnt but perfectly edible brownies!!! And once you get over the burnt crust they tasted almost bakery purchased! And yes he agreed to that I can cook and that he only mocked me so he could get to eat the marvellous treats :D

And do I believe him? Of course not! He had to eat his words because the one considered out of the race has won it! :)

And there's nothing which tastes better than the taste of victory!!!

Saturday, 2 November 2013

When I look at other successful bloggers

So its like this when I was little (or maybe like 10 years younger than today :P) and regularly update my diary, I used to read and re-read and think one day I'd be a famous writer, only if there was a way that the world could see how good I am. So all this while I was thinking if only I could get this to the rest of the world. And then came the whole internet boom and a little later the blog became a possibility. Here there was a perfectly simple medium to let everyone have such an easy access to your life,all you had to do was put it out there and click b click share by share you'd be everywhere! That simple? Oh! I wish!!

There's nothing like the ultimate face off with reality to humble you down. Mine was starting to write this blog, at first I didn't know what to name it, then I didn't know how to start. Then I'd not know what to write, then how often to write. Then set in the paranoia, Oh no! no one's reading my blog! and then now I am at acceptance :) so now with this blog post I'll just save pages from my diary by pouring my heart out here and not be jealous at all of the successful, minor celebrity bloggers reading whose blogs I spent the whole of yesterday. I just couldn't help it... I'm trying to plan my wedding and there was this awesomely apt blog about a girl who shopped in Cal.. given that my sasural is a place I'm going to see first time in my life this month I figured I better do my research well and get some pointers if I could find them and what better place than the very informative google to help me out which promptly pointed me to this blog. Helpful as the blog is.. the comments on the girls every post made me sightly jealous :( and then the mention of another blogger and co worker as a pro at fashion really surprised me. How could it be that someone who spends as much time as I do at the office still find time to so many awesome things while all I do when I'm not in office is to sleep or watch TV or at best be out on lunch and dinner dates (sigh!) and that's when it struck me.. in their own ways they are out stuff which might be helpful to others ( mind you I also found that blog because I was indeed searching for bridal lehengas in Kolkata :P ) as compared to my random blog where the only help anyone would get would be.. umm.. can't even come up with sarcastic insult!!! Man! my blog is really useless.. 

Anywho... now that I'm all humbled down and all ready to shop my heels flat :P I thought I would also start out something which might be helpful to other people... not quite sure what right now... but I'm sure I'll figure out something soon. Till then I'll just use this blog for my dime's worth as a daily/weekly/monthly/yearly whatever diary and if nothing else save some trees :)

So from today on I'll sign off as I used to sign off my diary

Lots of Love